Therapy Approaches

My practice draws from diverse traditions, guided by years of experience and a commitment to continual learning.

I’ll meet you where you are, and we’ll find what fits.

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Our Therapeutic Alliance

Decades of research show that the healing force in therapy lies in the therapeutic alliance, more than in any particular technique.

In short, it's the relationship that heals. How safe, understood, and supported you feel - is the strongest predictor of lasting change.

This means we both have an important role to play. I will give all I can in our time together, and will support you to give what you can. As trust builds naturally overtime, I hope you organically find that you want to open more and go further, creating more opportunities for deep work.

The Role You Play

The single most important factors for successful therapy are the therapeutic alliance, and of course, your commitment to the process.

This is why it is so important that you find a counsellor with whom you feel comfortable and safe. 

What you get out of therapy will reflect the quality of your therapeutic relationship with your counsellor.

For example:

  1. If your relationship is practical, your outcomes are likely to be practical.

  2. If your relationship with your counsellor is honest, you are likely to enter into a more honest relationship with yourself.

  3. If your relationship is strong, genuine and respects your individuality, you will emerge a stronger person, capable of genuine relationships, and more confident in your individuality. 

It's worth taking the time to find 
the right counsellor for you.
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Ready to Begin?

Ilana provides a safe, steady place to do honest work. You don’t need to be ready for everything. Just ready to begin.